Now that you’re pregnant with your second baby, you may wonder how are going to juggle the new baby with your first child. This can easily put someone into panic mode, but honestly, it doesn’t have to. You may not be a pro, but you have been through 40 weeks of pregnancy before so you can somewhat know what to expect there. I have mapped out a few key tips to embarking on this journey of a family of four.
The biggest thing I can suggest is to get your eldest child on board with what is happening in your belly. Include your child in talking to your tummy and making them feel a part of what is going on. Establishing an emotional connection will help with the transition as they will feel excited about their new baby brother or sister.
Next, while the new baby is growing, try and get big issues taken care of with your child that will require 100% of your attention. For instance, potty train them or transition them into a big kid bed. I promise you do not want to tackle either of these once your newborn arrives.
Lastly, don’t be hard on yourself. It will take a minute to figure out your new routine juggling two. I’d invest in a baby carrier and swing so you have safe places to keep the baby while you are doing things with your other child. Also, you will say 100 times phrases like, hold on Sally, I will help you in a minute, I need to change baby’s diaper. I would talk to your new baby using these same phrases so your toddler can hear that you are having a baby wait for things as well. This might help with any jealousy issues.
You will experience lots of highs seeing your kids form such a special bond with their new built-in best friend. In the hard times, just try to have patience, and take deep breaths as they will pass. You got this mama!
